Just letting you know....
This is our journey to spice up our love life and let you know what works (and what doesn't). It contains adult relationship themes so please don't visit if you are easily offended or under 18.
Last night we went spiritual and tried the ‘powergasm’. It’s masturbation but stopping before orgasm then feeling the energy surge through your body, waiting a while then starting the progress again. You can read more about it here.
Well, this is what we had to say about it…
Without trying to sound crass I’m surprised and disappointed at the number of men I sleep with who stick their tongues in my mouth, their units between my legs, pump both in and out vigourously, and roll off me with a smug look as if I should be both impressed and satisfied. I was even further dismayed when I found many of my friends are facing the same challenge with their men.
In an attempt to make the world of sexual fulfilment a better place for myself and others of my gender I decided to write down this simple strategy for you boys who genuinely seek to satisfy your woman. Guys, if you implement even fifty percent of what I share, I guarantee your woman will show you her greatfulness in more ways than one.
My strategy for using erotic betweens for ultimate stimulation
- After kissing your woman (lips closed) for a generous period of time, gently stick your tongue between her lips- The key word is “gently”. Probe her mouth; don’t assault her tonsils.
- Lick slowly and teasingly in the little junctures behind the ear lobes- Blow lightly in her ears as you do so.
- Move down to her neck and use a combination of kissing and tonguing on it.
- Drop to the crevasse between her breasts and spend some time running your tongue up and down it. Don’t go with the natural urge to rise out of the crack and suck on her sumptuous breasts lest you wish to destroy the build-up and most likely the whole session.
- By-passing her sensuous garden suck her toes remembering to tongue inbetween each as you do.
- Have her turn onto her stomach.
- Roll your tongue in the dimples behind her knees for a time
- Now run your tongue along the creases between the tops of her legs and her bum cheeks
- In a swirling motion slowly and methodically use your tongue to work her bum hole.
- Finally lick her arm pits and have her flip onto her back once again.
If you took your time and didn’t fudge on any of the above steps, your lady should be extremely ready for penetration (whether that be with tongue, penis, or toy). Well go on stud! I took you this far. Surely you know what to do from here.
A little while ago I realised I needed to add that extra ‘oomph’ into my love life so I wrote a list of 21 things to try. Over the course of just over a month I tried each one of these things with Paul, my willing partner in crime.
This is my own personal account of each of these 21 things. Some worked, some didn’t and some things were much more fun than I’d anticipated!
As I’m a 30 something busy working mum of 3 you can be guaranteed I haven’t covered anything which is super expensive or very time consuming.
In my book I give you my experience on:
- vintage porn – hands only – not in bed sex – erotic dice game – handcuffs – dirty text or emails – erotic fiction – erotic story writing – orgasm boosters – sex toy shopping – spanking – outside sex – porn – body paint – photo session – nooners – red room – quickies – horny goat weed – dress up – blindfolds -
I’ve also given you my very first erotic short story.
Why not try my 21 easy ways to spice up your love life then let me know how they worked for you?
We’ve got over the holiday period and a nasty bug. Now we’re back and our first experiment of the new year is talking dirty. We don’t do it – do you?
We’ll let you know if it was a passion booster or just a distraction!
Check back soon.
If you’re wondering where we’ve been over the holiday period we have nothing glamorous to report. I’d like to tell you we found THE missing ingredient to spicy, insatiable sex and have been in bed for 2 weeks. BUT I can’t.
We’ve been under the weather with colds. Paul is almost through it but I’m lagging behind.
There’s been no sex. Just evenings of coughing, spluttering and sneezing.
What a start to 2010!
Late last night after a “pamper me” bath and a drink we scrabbled upstairs to find what adventure we could come 
up with using the contents of our ancient box of toys. After rifling through it a couple of seconds Lyn pulled out a whip and a paddle.
If you’ve read any of my past blogs you know I’m a sucker for being dominated. Excitedly I stripped down and waited for the spanking to begin.
It started out a bit slow, once again due to Lyn’s gentle heart and deep caring. She was holding back because she wanted me to be warm and comfortable. Feeling a bit unsure of where things would go, I explained the importance of really throwing yourself into a dominating role when you’re the person doing the spanking.
Lyn took it very lovingly and seemed to really throw herself into it. The whipping and paddling became harder. At one point she even asked me if I was uncomfortable. When I told her I was she replied, “Good, now stop whining until I tell you you’ve had enough!” Very sexy!
After the beating she asked me how I wanted to cum. I pointed out she should choose since she was the dominatrix. She surprised me by choosing to give me a combination blow and hand job. To top it off she chose not to cum herself. Now tell me that wasn’t a 180 degree turn!
Interested in the whip? You can get one from LoveHoney. Perhaps you prefer the paddle – don’t worry, LoveHoney has them in stock too.
