My motivation

I used to be someone who didn’t really, fully, 100 percent commit to something.  I had good intentions at the start and I would always say “yes, I can definitely do that and see it through to the end” but really, deep down, I knew I’d give up.  It has nothing to do with lack of skills or knowledge but more towards motivation.

After a while the motivation would wane and I’d never finish anything. Well, that is a huge generalisation and overstatement but you get the idea!

It used to be like that with my sex life in particular.  We’d talk about the fact sex was pretty non existant and I’d give Paul all kinds of reassurances that I’d make more time etc. etc. But at the end of the day I would be worn out from running a business, dealing with 3 kids and life in general.  I’d quickly weigh up the options:

Sex or Sleep

You don’t have to be Einstein to work out sleep won, hands down, every time.

I didn’t make sex a priority.  And sometimes it was just plain inconvenient.

Then I decided to take a look at my life.  Was it really worth it to deny myself sexual fulfillment?  I was particularly interested to read that the biggest regret for most people approaching the end of their lives isn’t not enough money or not the right career but lack of sex.  That’s a scary statistic!

Today I’m really tired (so is Paul) and it would be too easy to crawl into bed and fall asleep.

But, I’m committed.  I want a fantastic sex life. And where do I get my motivation?

Come a little closer and I’ll share my secret.

Sex is actually quite fun

I can’t say this evening will be full of swinging from the beams wild kind of sex but I’m going to attempt it!