Well, this is what we had to say about it…

In an attempt to make the world of sexual fulfilment a better place for myself and others of my gender I decided to write down this simple strategy for you boys who genuinely seek to satisfy your woman. Guys, if you implement even fifty percent of what I share, I guarantee your woman will show you her greatfulness in more ways than one.

My strategy for using erotic betweens for ultimate stimulation

• After kissing your woman (lips closed) for a generous period of time, gently stick your tongue between her lips- The key word is “gently”. Probe her mouth; don’t assault her tonsils.
• Lick slowly and teasingly in the little junctures behind the ear lobes- Blow lightly in her ears as you do so.
• Move down to her neck and use a combination of kissing and tonguing on it.
• Drop to the crevasse between her breasts and spend some time running your tongue up and down it. Don’t go with the natural urge to rise out of the crack and suck on her sumptuous breasts lest you wish to destroy the build-up and most likely the whole session.
• By-passing her sensuous garden suck her toes remembering to tongue inbetween each as you do.
• Have her turn onto her stomach.
• Roll your tongue in the dimples behind her knees for a time
• Now run your tongue along the creases between the tops of her legs and her bum cheeks
• In a swirling motion slowly and methodically use your tongue to work her bum hole.
• Finally lick her arm pits and have her flip onto her back once again.

If you took your time and didn’t fudge on any of the above steps, your lady should be extremely ready for penetration (whether that be with tongue, penis, or toy). Well go on stud! I took you this far. Surely you know what to do from here.

This is my own personal account of each of these 21 things.  Some worked, some didn’t and some things were much more fun than I’d anticipated!

As I’m a 30 something busy working mum of 3 you can be guaranteed I haven’t covered anything which is super expensive or very time consuming.

In my book I give you my experience on:
- vintage porn – hands only – not in bed sex – erotic dice game – handcuffs – dirty text or emails – erotic fiction – erotic story writing – orgasm boosters – sex toy shopping – spanking – outside sex – porn – body paint – photo session – nooners – red room – quickies – horny goat weed – dress up – blindfolds -

I’ve also given you my very first erotic short story.

Why not try my 21 easy ways to spice up your love life then let me know how they worked for you?

We’ll let you know if it was a passion booster or just a distraction!

Check back soon.

We’ve been under the weather with colds.  Paul is almost through it but I’m lagging behind.

There’s been no sex.  Just evenings of coughing, spluttering and sneezing.

What a start to 2010!

If you’ve read any of my past blogs you know I’m a sucker for being dominated.  Excitedly I stripped down and waited for the spanking to begin.

It started out a bit slow, once again due to Lyn’s gentle heart and deep caring.  She was holding back because she wanted me to be warm and comfortable.  Feeling a bit unsure of where things would go, I explained the importance of really throwing yourself into a dominating role when you’re the person doing the spanking.

Lyn took it very lovingly and seemed to really throw herself into it.  The whipping and paddling became harder.  At one point she even asked me if I was uncomfortable.  When I told her I was she replied, “Good, now stop whining until I tell you you’ve had enough!”  Very sexy!

After the beating she asked me how I wanted to cum.  I pointed out she should choose since she was the dominatrix.  She surprised me by choosing to give me a combination blow and hand job.  To top it off she chose not to cum herself.   Now tell me that wasn’t a 180 degree turn!

Interested in the whip?  You can get one from LoveHoney.  Perhaps you prefer the paddle – don’t worry, LoveHoney has them in stock too.