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This is our journey to spice up our love life and let you know what works (and what doesn't). It contains adult relationship themes so please don't visit if you are easily offended or under 18.
Last night for our sexual encounter we decided to use use some sex dice we bought in an adult shop over five years ago. After blowing off the dust and fuzz that had accumulated on them from years of not being used we stripped down and crawled underneath the duvet.
Sex dice, for those of you not familiar with them, are a set of die designed to be rolled at the same time. One die
gives an action (tickling, touching, licking, etc) whilst the other tells you which part of another person’s body to apply it to (lips, neck, boobs, etc).
After taking a few moments to warm the mattress we spaced ourselves out so we had room to roll the dice. For 45 minutes Lyn and I took turns rolling and performing the various combinations on one another.
Though the experience was far from earth shattering it was a nice way to spend time with Lyn.
What I found to be positive about the sex dice:
- They started things off in a playful manner- though playfulness should be a constant it’s easy to allow tensions to slow things down.
- They were random- it’s so easy to forget how important variety is
- They were erotic- The actions are designed to tantalise
*A special note for men to vastly improve the use of sex dice with your partner
On the location die there’s a question mark on one side. Whatever you do, don’t always assume this is the symbol for the vagina. Take action on parts of her body you don’t regularly touch. You’ll love the reaction=)
If you want to get your hands on a pair of sex dice you can order them here.
Last night Lyn pulled out our single handcuff. I’m not really sure why we only own one, but this has been the case for six years. Anyway, as I was saying, Lyn pulled out our single cuff for our nightly session.
Since it’s been awhile since we’ve used the cuff, she took a few minutes to consider how she wanted to kick off our 
bondage night. After a few minutes of thought she aggressively cuffed my hands behind my back. The metal cuffs bit into my wrists and I groaned in pleasure. This turned out to be a mistake. All though Lyn is exploring her dominatrix fantasies, she’s very gentle at heart. When I groaned she immediately became concerned she’d hurt me. Of course this took away from the role for a few seconds and slowed things a bit.
After I assured her I was fine, she recovered by alternating between spanking me and tickling me. It felt fantastic until it was time to roll me onto my back. Caught up in the play, I convinced myself I could easily roll over. Big mistake! I rolled over and found myself in true pain as the cuffs bit deeper into my wrists and forced my hands into the small of my back.
Lyn just giggled as she released my wrists and then cuffed them again in front of me. Using her hand and mouth she brought me to greater excitement. As I laid there as hard as a rock, she mounted my face and teased me by queening me for a couple of seconds. I was going mad with excitement as she pulled off leaving me wanting so much more. Slowly she slid down and mounted me. Using a small vibrator on my balls and her clit she worked us slowly to climax.
I fully enjoyed the experience. There’s just something about the woman being in control and me being completely powerless that really thrills me. I will be looking forward to trying much more whilst being handcuffed.
For those of you who have played around with cuffs, I’d love to hear from you. Tell me about some of the things you’ve tried.
Due to problems with our website we’re late in posting our Wednesday experiment. It was the the Double Ding Ring from LoveHoney.co.uk
If you want to buy the Double Ding Ring you can buy it direct from LoveHoney.
Have we been converted to a foot loving couple? Watch our video and find out!
It’s my turn to pick the experiment for the night and I’ve decided
to (try to) give a foot job. Never done it before but the Internet came to my aid with a nifty ‘how to‘ guide.
Will let you know how the experiment went – check back tomorrow!
How did the face sitting experiment go? Did Paul survive? Watch the video and find out…
Tonight I’m striking out for female dominance and we’re going to
try face sitting (or queening).
Not my idea but I’m game 
The results, as usual, will be in tomorrow!
Thank’s to all of you who voted on the poll helping to choose how Lyn will dress for our next sexual fantasy night. Truly thank you! I’m excited to say my wife will be dressing as a naughty school girl.
And by the way did I remember to say “Thank you!” and “Your the greatest readers a guy could ask for.” ?
Wednesday evening we tried the Hot & Cold blow job experiment – didn’t post about it yesterday because our website had ‘technical difficulties’. But don’t worry, the results are in….
His experience
Blow jobs are pretty non-existent in our sex life. Sometimes in play Lyn will lick the shaft or head of my penis, but it lasts about 3 seconds if I’m lucky and then it’s all over. So, you can imagine my surprise when she announced she was going to give me a hot and cold blow job. I wanted to fall on my knees and thank a benevolent Universe. Instead I just smiled and silently punched the air in victory.
That night she had me strip down and relax in my favourite recliner. A few minutes later she appeared scantily clad with a mug of hot honey water in one hand and a glass of cold water in the other. Without a word she set them on the floor and began to work my cock and balls.
As she sucked my cock she alternated between liquids. I was literally moaning in about 5 minutes. I can’t describe the bliss of the sensations. The warm water caused me to pump more and more blood to the head of my cock whilst the cold caused me to tingle with excitement (just thinking of it is causing me to stir…mmm). Whilst switching from one liquid to the other Lyn stroked my throbbing shaft. Just as I was about to explode, Lyn mounted me and rode me to orgasm.
This experience was absolutely mind blowing (literally). On a scale of 1 to 10 I’d give this hot and cold blow job experiment a 10,000. I would highly recommend this to any couple or group containing at least one male.
Her experience
Blow jobs aren’t my forte (much to Paul’s sorrow) – to be perfectly honest I never quite know what to do. That’s probably the topic for a whole different post. Anyway, back to the hot & cold experiment….
I was really tempted to make myself a hot chocolate (like the girls in the book) but settled on warm water with honey for fear of being accused of only doing it for chocolate. I’m sure I’d never do that *ahem*. And I picked water for the cold.
It felt like a juggling act in places – taking a mouthful of liquid from one cup, rushing back to Paul, trying not to let is spurt out of my mouth, swallowing the liquid, taking a swig from the other cup then starting all over again. It’s definitely not a nice, leisurely pastime for the giver but it was worth every second to see the reaction in Paul.
It was fun and different – something I’d do again. And maybe next time with hot chocolate
I’ve just read ‘Confessions of a Working Girl‘ and ‘Extra Confessions of a Working Girl‘. I really enjoyed both books – quite an eye opener into the world of UK massage parlours, saunas and escort agencies.
Anyway, Miss S, the author mentioned offering ‘hot and cold’ blow jobs as a special to regular clients. For those of you who don’t know what it is I’ll enlighten you It’s alternating hot then cold liquids in your mouth as you give a blow job. I did a google, as you do, on such topics and came across a website which actually claimed ‘your man will love you more’ if you perform this type of BJ.
Which leads me on to tonight’s experimentation…. it is the Hot & Cold blow job. I’m doing this in the name of research and not to make Paul love me more. Honestly.
Stay tuned to find out if it’s as good as they say or just hot air.
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