Take it when you can get it

If you’ve read Paul’s post, you’ll know that last night fizzled out like a wet sparkler.

So today is a new day and I’ve gained a few insights into what makes a night of passion and what doesn’t.  BTW, going to sleep before & during scheduled sex time is a no-no.  If you think you can have a crafty doze, think again.  He or she will probably notice.

I went shopping today to get some new lingerie and my very first pair of f*ck me pumps.  Can’t believe I’m in my mid 30s and have never owned a pair of shoes just for the bedroom.  Anyway, before I get carried away telling you about my purchases (I’m sure you’ll get to see them soon) I’ll get to the point I’m trying to make.

Our daughter was taking a nap so I did a little fashion show for Paul.  Then I gave him the option to bring our 10pm sex time forward.  Now, there were 2 reasons for this.  First I’m standing there in front of him in my new hot pink high heeled shoes, stockings and a sexy waitress ensemble.  Second, it’s the first day of that ‘time of the month’ and I get tired.  I wanted to make sure I could be fully awake to have sex and the chances are greatly improved at 3 in the afternoon.

And his response?

It wasn’t “OMG baby, you look so hot.  Get over here – I want you now!!”

Think more along the lines of:

“Only if I get it twice today”.

So I weighed up my options, got dressed and left.