The Victorian in me

Starting to blog about sex was a HUGE decision for me.

Being a busy wife, mum and business owner I had convinced myself I didn’t have the time or energy to invest into sex.. that was something other, younger, fitter, more attractive people did.  I was on the once a week track; whether we needed it or not.  I can honestly say that sex wasn’t an issue to me.  Or more specifically, lack of sex wasn’t an issue to me.

But times change and something clicked.  A little voice was whispering in my ear ‘you deserve to have sex…. it’s good for you…… sex is fun….. it will make your relationship stronger’.  So eventually I gave in and committed to getting myself a good sex life with my husband.

And then I wanted to write about it.

Yesterday I learnt I still had a way to go about being totally, unashamedly out there with my sex life.

Paul mentioned anal sex.

And I cringed.

I felt very Victorian – I even think I blushed.  Which led me to wonder why I feel there is something a little, shall I say, socially unacceptable about anal sex.  It’s not a subject I’ve ever spoken about to any of my female friends – we just pretend it doesn’t exist.

But it does.  I know for a fact.  I do it (occasionally).

I’ve just recently had my first experience of anal whilst using a vibrator.  I now may do it more often

So, what’s your opinion on anal sex? Do you?  Don’t you?  Would you like to?